Guest post by Mom:
Mother's Day was great. I will admit I always envision just a little more relaxation for me than ever happens, but I'm not great at allowing Pete to just relax on Father's Day so it's only fair. Plus it is so close to my birthday.
This year, however, Pete NAILED the present. He surprised me with this:
That is a giant canvas print of photos I had never seen or even known were taken! It's stunning. I do remember the day that the kiddos got all dressed up. It was my birthday and my mom had bought matching outfits for everyone. She said she just went crazy at Target and even bought some for my sister's kids. I didn't think a thing about it. Angie even took the time to do my kids hair all cute after we had gone swimming. That was unusual either. I'm sure it drives my family crazy how haphazard my kids' hair can be. I even took a SLEW of photos myself because they looked so darn cute!
I should have known. He and his buddy, well now business partner, have started a printing company called Smashing Canvases. His buddy, Nate, is even the guy who has taken ALL our family photos for the last little bit. Including my parents! And yet, I was entirely surprised. It is so beautiful and I just stare at it.
The other "gift" was really from myself, but I let Pete take credit and give a present to each of his girls. I have a friend who sells Lulularoe clothing and I just couldn't help myself. I bought the Mommy and Me dresses.
Iva will be able to wear hers for probably TWO YEARS because I bought the size up and didn't realize I really shouldn't have. We love twirling in them together though.
I love Mother's Day also because I reflect on how much I love being a mom to each of my kids. And I really mean that I love being Siena's mom and I love being Cara's mom and Iva's mom and Sam's mom since they are all so unique.
Luckily all my kids are cuddlers, but Iva is still young enough that we spend lots of time snuggling. she loves to be silly with me and smile and sing and have a "dance party!"
Siena is really a dream. I love that she's getting old enough for me to discover who she REALLY is instead of me creating it. Her "All About Mom" stuff from school was awesome. I love that she tries everything and wants to do it all. She was even okay with not winning the district science fair although she was disappointed and had high hopes! She still went and was well behaved and knowledgeable and happy.
My Cara tends to remind me to feel things a little deeper and quieter. She breaks when I am mad and I learn to hold my tongue because of her. She also finds joy in just about everything and she does it in a way that's almost bigger yet quieter than me. Her little smile always has so much more behind it.
Then there is this guy. It's not different to have a boy yet. All my babies have been their own person so for me it's still that he's just a different baby (with some diaper issues being different!) He has got to be the quietest most observant little soul in our family. Only Cara can rival him and that is just because her voice is small. He loves to watch us and smiles with his WHOLE BODY when he catches the eye of his girls. He's still little and helping me soak up the baby time.
I know I am in the trenches of young motherhood. Sleep is not a given. People need me physically and emotionally 24/7. I'm trying to find ways to discipline and yet be better at loving and picking my battles, but I LOVE IT. I love it so much. In fact, if you'll excuse me, I'm gonna go play with my kids.